My first baby was four weeks old on her first road trip. It was for a family reunion in Washington State where we would be spending most nights in a rustic cabin or sharing a house with my in-laws. We drove 2,000+ miles roundtrip.
It was an ambitious road trip for new parents, and honestly, it was rough. But there were good moments too, like when we introduced our new daughter to her great-grandfather. I'm glad we did it, and our now-teenage daughter is a great traveler today.
Having survived that trip, we took another road trip with our baby three months later and traveled to the same reunion when our second child was five months old.
If you love to travel, there is no reason you can't plan a road trip with your baby. Here are my top tips for success.
Plan Extra Travel Time
We found that we needed to stop a lot more often on a road trip with a baby. A four-week-old needs frequent feeding and changing. We had to stop every couple of hours and it took much longer to get there than in normally would.
The good news is that our drive times got better from there. Our baby grew and we became more experienced at traveling with her. You will always need to stop more often when you are traveling with kids, but it shouldn't be nearly as much time as on our first trip with a baby.
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Bring Another Adult
It's a lot easier to travel with a baby when you have two adults. On this trip, it was me and my husband. You could also recruit a grandparent or friend.
Two adults can share driving and baby care responsibilities. Make sure that one of you gets enough sleep to drive safely. Plus, it's nice to have another adult to talk to along the way.
Yes, you can take a road trip with your baby on your own if you need to. I took a quick road trip – about 4 hours each way – with my second child when he was 7 months old. It was not his first road trip and the drive was uneventful.
If you travel on your own with your baby, place the car seat behind the passenger seat so that it is easier to see and reach your baby if needed. Expect to stop more often to attend to the baby's needs.
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Sit with Your Baby
Before I had kids, I imagined that my baby would cheerfully nap or quietly entertain herself in her car seat or playpen. Maybe some kids are like this, but not mine. Whether at home or on the road, my newborn resisted naps and wanted my attention all the time.
On that trip – and most long drives until she switched to a front-facing car seat – I sat in the back seat next to the baby. I was able to give her all the attention she wanted and calm her when she was fussy. I sat on the passenger side so that I could still see and carry on a conversation with my husband.
When we had two young children and a minivan, I sat in the middle passenger seat next to the baby. My preschooler's car seat was on the back bench behind the baby. Both kids were on the driver's side and I was on the passenger side with easy access and sightlines to both kids and my husband.
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Stick to Your Baby's Schedule
Nap schedules were very important to me and my babies. When they got a good nap, they slept better at night. Then I got more sleep. Everyone was happy.
So, we structured our road trips so that our babies would get their naps on schedule. My babies slept well in the car, so nap time was the perfect opportunity to put a lot of miles behind us.
When we arrived at our destination, we planned our activities around nap time so the schedule would not be disrupted. It wasn't always fun, but it was worth it to us.
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Essential Gear
Here is my list of must-have gear for a road trip with a baby.
- car seat
- stroller
- portable crib
- sun shade
- feeding supplies
- diaper changing supplies
- extra clothing
- snacks
- toys
Ensure that your car seat is installed correctly and that your baby is safely strapped in.
Most hotels can loan you a portable crib if it's impractical to bring your own. You will probably want to wipe it down before you use it. I always brought my own bedding as well. You can buy sheets to fit a Pack-n-Play at Amazon.com.
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Conclusion
If you love to travel, there is no reason that you can't travel with your baby. Our babies grew into teenagers who love family road trips – even the long driving days – because they've been doing it their whole lives.
I hope these tips help you plan a great road trip with your baby.
Happy travels!
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jana
I have anxiety just reading this post. Good on ya 🙂
Mary @ The World Is A Book
Thanks for sharing a wonderful and memorable trip. I totally agree with all your points here and loved your stories behind each one. We had a hard time accepting help too due to not wanting to bother people. I was a paranoid first-time mom but eventually learned to go with the flow. I will take traveling with babies anytime over an active toddler =)
Mara
What a wonderful post! Thank you so much for sharing – I love that your attitude is all’s well that ends well. This completely validates my outlook that the experience is almost always worth the trouble. (And my oldest was that kind of a nurser too, so I completely identified with your story!). Your tip about accepting help is right on the money.
Allison
Thanks so much for your comments! I do look back and wonder if we were crazy, taking a baby that young on that type of trip, but it felt right at the time and overall, our memories are positive. After it’s over, it’s fun to have a few good “war stories” too. I’m sure every travelling family has a few.